Ways to survive High School
Ways to survive High School
The high school generally starts from class 9th and lasts up to class 12th. I am new to High school so I decided to share some tips and tricks I've found useful so far. I did a lot of research when I newly entered in class 9th so I read articles and went through youtube videos and I have selected the best of them for my readers.
- Socializing. The very obvious part of high school is to socialize. I did not have a hard time doing it because I am an extrovert. But I have an introverted friend who needed to blend in with her new school. Fortunately, she knew a few people in her school and they had her back all the time. But, if you are not fortunate enough, I've got a piece of advice for you. Make friends, they will help you in more ways than you could ever think of. And not just any friends, only the ones in which you can trust. The "trust" part is hard because you are new to a place and you cannot just trust anyone you find in the hallway. Observe people in your class, their behavior will give you a brief piece of information and you will know whether or not to befriend them.
- Learn to say NO. I want to explain it to you in a case study form. I have a classmate, and we had a science group assignment, so I got to know him. While the assignment, he reached up to ask a question from our homework. I knew the answer and told him. A few days ahead, he asked me to give him the answers to a whole part of the homework. I could not hold myself back anymore, I told him that I won't. You should not give them the answer key to a whole chapter's question answers. And another reason as to why was that he attended the class the day the answers were discussed. I told him that I could help him with a part but I could not just feed them the answers. This will make them reliable to me. But do this politely so no one is hurt and you can still keep healthy relationships with the person. Saying NO when you are not sure gives you an attitude that you can stand up for yourself and makes you feel more independent than before. So make sure you do it.
- Keep a good image. You need to keep a good image in front of everyone you see. Greet the people you know and talk politely. And this one is a must- Keep your work on time. Always turn in your assignments before the due date. If you find it challenging to do so, read my previous article on HOW TO STUDY WITHOUT ANY INTERRUPTIONS. And be confident while talking or presenting yourself to people. Dress properly and look neat, people always judge how you dressed.
- Stand up for yourself. This is a very important thing you need to do in high school. You may find a lot of bullies in school. So have a comeback, this will warn them that you are not one of the people who will tolerate their bullying. This will also work for college students.
- Know what people care for. People do not care about how many friends do you have. Although it is important to have at least 2-3 friends on which you can trust. But people do care about how you behave. They will notice how you answer questions in class and how you talk so keep that in mind.
- Stay on the schedule. Make a schedule and stay on it. This will ensure you get your papers turned in on time and will have adequate time for breaks. I have included this in my previous post so you can check it out if you need more details.
I'd be tackling issues related to friendship, career, studies, choices, and more. Being a teenager is hard, but let's face it together. I am open to suggestions so you can mail me at- ipshita7000i@gmail.com
Thank you for reading.
Thank you for reading.
Mate, your blogs are surely good, helpful and illuminating..
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wow ish it just amazed meee!!!!
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ReplyDeleteOk, not to be rude, but some of the points you suggested don't seem like true guiders to me. Like, in the point where you suggest that introverts make friends, being an extrovert i doubt that you can understand the social difficulties an introvert faces. Also, if you are telling us to observe people and decide whether they are good to be made friends, its simply us being judgemental, don't you think? And we aren't always who we show ourselves as. First impressions are NEVER the last impressions.
ReplyDeleteNow, one more thing that strikes odd to me is that you are basically telling us that we gotta keep that 100% perfect student image in front of others, dress to impress and whatnot. Isn't that like displaying a false picture of yourself? Our surroundings need to accept us as who we are, not who we pretend to be. Correct me if I'm wrong please.
I have noticed that you haven't got many hate comments (its really good though) or comments stating a few changes you should make to your advices which might poise to be pessimistic to some peools (specifically people like me), so I thought why not be the first haha.
See please don't feel down by reading this, just, try to consider these few changes to make these advices even more appealing. And I'm saying this just to help you, and I request you take it as an opportunity to prove that such comments would rather motivate you to do better than demotivate you to stop blogging.
Thanks and keep up the good work ��